Psychotherapy and the painful and sensitive at-heart

Kayıt: Jun 29, 2017 Mesajlar: 1 Şehir: Kielce Durum: **BağlıDeğil**

There are lovely people out there, tender and sensitive in the heart. 1 thing they frequently have in common: they all suffer from low self esteem, depression and such. Many times they work in the social area, but they could come from any job. Often they feel not to fit into society in any respect. Whatever they attempt, it is impossible for them to locate a suiting spot.
On the flip side, there are the strong manipulators out there, often unscrupulous and insensitive. Exploiting mother earth along with their fellow men, they blossom. They've found a way to fight depression. They behave, control, manipulate and collect power. I am certain that they're depressed too, but they have discovered a way to suppress it. A lifetime of manipulation, dependent on power and may, lacks one of the most significant elements of life, wich is love. Where love is missing, there's senselessness. And where there's senselessness, there is depression.
There are folks pointing out how wrong the Bible is today, as it proclaims 'the humble will inherit the world'. "Do you think of a dumber line" , they ask. The only individuals inheriting the world would be the super wealthy and those with large armies and nukes. Nothing modest about that. They say that it has at all times been the men with the iron fist who direct. From the beginning of time till the finish. If your meek, you'll merely end up being the guy behind the man.
I do not agree with this statement whatsoever. It is based on a entire misunderstanding of the word humble, as it had been employed by Jesus and so many other strong personalities. It confuses modest with feeble. That's a significant blunder. This is not just the fallacy of this strong (and those dominated by them), but of the tender and sensitive hearted as well, who want another world of respect and love. They feel threatened by the manipuators and exploiters. They fall in anxiety and depression. They often fall in the trap of becoming passive victims. "The world may be quite so beautiful", they sigh, "if there were not this greedy bad men and women, that seem to never get enough ."
I shall proclaim another notion here: Meekness is complete power. It's a great deal more powerful than anything else.
Let us first deal with the wrong idea of meekness to weed out it. To be modest in the wrong sense will definitely cause frustration and depression. It's accompanied by an overwhelming sense of impotence and powerlessness. Meek persons of this type always feel based on the whim and arbitrariness of those persons responsible for
The very sensitive and intelligent people fall into this trap. They believe that they can never become as cruel, stone and immature hearted as the oviously successful folks. The Darwinian theory of evolution brainwashes you: "If you want to live, then you have to be the fittest. The remainder is doomed to drown. Fittest means to be hard, harsh, cruel, cruel, calculating and powerful."
I have been taught like this in my childhood. My decision was that I'll never become Źródło tekstu, as I couldn't even stand a ant to be murdered. There's not any healthier person, not just to live, but to live, than the meek one. Indeed the humble shall inherit the planet, but this kind of meekness is completely different. It will rid you of melancholy. It will provide a new outlook to your own life. It will give you a feeling of control and power. It will guarantee you complete independence.
Actually misunderstood meekness as well as the display of premium manipulative power are of exactly the identical kind. They look different in the surface just. All these are a guaranteed supply of frustration and melancholy. All these are based on too little internal strength and independence. While the strong guy is actively fighting to get recognition and approval, mainly from himself, the week ones have left their claim to get respect.
However, their weekness is often much closer to actual power than the outside display of management of the seemingly powerful. These are often completely weak inside, driven solely by their greed for popularity, for which they're happy to transgress all laws of existence. The soft and tender person naturally has a great deal of respect for all these laws that are momentous. When they are carefully guided to discover their inner invulnerability, they'll instantly begin to blossom. When they are taught to fully step from this idiotic game of artificial competition by accepting the real identity of eternal bliss and knowledge, they're in any manner be superior to even the most effective manipulators. Life itself will probably be at their disposal, offering them any sort of opulence, independence and strength. Outside strenght is going to be decreased to a mere shadow of the ability of pure aware essence.
Those strong persons, whose power can be built upon arrogance and manipulation, will find it nearly impossible to leave their pathological addiction to material superiority.
Therefore rejoice, you, who are sensitive and tender at heart. Come out from depression and anxiety. Reclaim your heritage of electricity. The sole reason, why a false screen of artificial electricity may keep the entire world mesmerized is that more sensitive and kind persons will have to return to display the irresistible power of love, kindness and concern for the needs of the others. The famous British mathematician, philosopher and writer Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) has recently said the following: "The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts ." These doubts can be overcome with the ideal advice and education. Reality never supports power based on arrogance, cynicism and also unscrupulousness. It could be tolerated for a while, but very soon it's the cause of it's own destruction.
On the other hand reality always supports love, freedom, sensivity, compassion, meekness and respect. These qualities will be the qualities of original life. Should you cooperate with lifes innate temperament, who will blossom forever. Get out of the habit of complaining, wailing and accusing. Eliminate frustration and anxiety. You may be much nearer to your power than you think.
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Kayıt: Apr 14, 2016 Mesajlar: 97 Durum: **BağlıDeğil**

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